I have never considered myself to be an adventurous person. I am generally risk-averse. I stay home a lot and do boring things like reading books and watching television. I’m not into extreme sports. I disapprove of motorcycles. I do not have tattoos. I’m very happy to have my steady government job with a steady government paycheck; the thought of trying to make a living freelancing or starting my own business terrifies me. I have a will and a power of attorney and an emergency fund, in case. I make plans and backup plans. I don’t really do spontaneity. Not only do I not live on the edge, I don’t even live within shouting distance of it, and I like it that way.
But recently I had a conversation with a new acquaintance that made me reassess my claim to a life of dull predictability. We were discussing my fondness for travel and he asked me if there was anywhere really weird I wanted to go. I asked what he meant by “weird”, and the example he gave was Iceland. I have actually been to Iceland – it was a lot of fun and I’d love to go back. And while Iceland certainly is a unique place, the thought of visiting another EU country only a few hours away does not seem to me to be a particularly “out there” thing to do. I somewhat frequently get on planes and go, alone, to places where I have never been, may not know anyone, and don’t speak the native language. This does not strike me as a big deal, but some people apparently find this shockingly unusual and courageous. Adventurous, if you will.
And then of course there’s the whole Foreign Service thing. When I mention having lived in West Africa for a few years most regular, non-globally-nomadic people react as if I said I had been living on Mars. And I suppose, for most people, the two prospects are both so tremendously unlikely that it almost amounts to the same thing. But moving around the world is a thing that I do now, and a thing that a lot of my friends do, so it’s started to seem kind of normal. Not when I think about it rationally, but it just feels that way. And this is something that might possibly be considered by a not-insignificant number of sensible, logical people to be kind of an adventure.
And who am I to argue with that? Perhaps I should pay more attention to the adventures I do have and appreciate them for what they are.